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Hallowe’en Musings

April 20, 2024 No Comments

Image by Freestocks on Unsplash 31 October 2023 I didn’t know it was Hallowe’en (*) – hadn’t remembered it was Hallowe’en, at least – until I typed in today’s date. But Hallowe’en it is. I should perhaps think of letting my pet sitters back at home know that there will be a stream of kiddies […]

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Mike and Medjool Fusion Holiday

April 20, 2024 2 Comments

All photos my own – taken in Catania, Sicily, today (or else, as indicated, back in 1992) 7th October 2023 I am in Sicily. Alone not alone. Alone in that I have come away unaccompanied. Not alone in that there are the island’s usual residents, plus more than a handful of tourists. Last time I […]

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A Non-Ordinary Friday

April 20, 2024 3 Comments

Photo by Jr Korpa on Unsplash 16th September 2023 In early January 2023, I had dinner with a couple of friends from my “end of life” circle. At that dinner, as well as bravely avoiding all contact with alcohol (dry January and all), I fell with delightful curiosity and intrigue into at least two, new-to-me, […]

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So – I Didn’t See Any Swans

April 20, 2024 No Comments

Main image by Dype Official on Unsplash. All other photos my own 10th September 2023 Race Event day + one. My lower back is achy. I can feel my tight thigh muscles, and know they will be all the tighter tomorrow, event day + two. But otherwise, all good. Better than good. I feel enthused, […]

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My Biggest Little Trail Run

April 20, 2024 No Comments

Photos my own, taken today 8th September 2023 Fellow Griefling, poet Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, whose daily poems keep me both grounded with the earth and connected to the stars through her exquisite words, sometimes introduces her poems with a line like, “short big poem” or “very short poem” or even, “very very short poem”. I […]

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Coming to the Here and Now – Right Now

April 20, 2024 2 Comments

Image by Jon Tyson on Unsplash 5 September 2023 I am feeling jittery and distracted. It’s not wholly uncommon, of course, but I seem to be lacking focus more than is usual. Part of it, I realise, is that I don’t have enough structure in my days at the moment. A lot of the time […]

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When answering with the same words is not an option…

April 20, 2024 No Comments

21 August 2023 All photos my own. Main photo: Ring of Brodgar, Mainland Orkney Medjool and I have been continuing our lovely holiday and are now exploring the Orkneys. (I understand that, while one should not say, “the Shetlands”, one can say “the Orkneys”. But perhaps I should check. (I just did… it pisses some […]

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“Everyone has a story for how they end up here”

April 20, 2024 No Comments

15 August 2023 Photos my own For the past ten or so days, Medjool and I have been on holiday in Shetland. Note One: Despite there being approximately 100 islands in the archipelago, I quickly learned to refer to where we were as just “Shetland” – not “The Shetlands” or “The Shetland Islands”. Whether we […]

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Sixty. Unimaginably Sixty.

April 20, 2024 1 Comment

Image by Nick Fewings on Unsplash 28 July 2023 Yesterday, 27th July, Mike would have been 60. His birth date – 27 07 1963. My birth date – 27 03 1967. Same digits. Just turned around in a couple of places. I love number patterns, and I always loved that our birth dates had the […]

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A love letter to my parents

April 20, 2024 1 Comment

Photo my own 28 July 2023 Last weekend my parents had their 60th wedding anniversary celebrations. A little prematurely, in truth, for they were married on 7th September 1963 (“seven nines are sixty three!” being the clever little ditty for each and any one of us who wanted to be sure to remember their special […]

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